Why are my panties so damn tiny if you showed up commando?

Women will endure a lot of torture in order to look like what we think men want.  We pluck ourselves nearly hairless (yes, even *there*), we wear dreadfully uncomfortable clothes, and we buy stuff called camouflage makeup.  Invariably, however, you open the door and the guy is standing there in jeans, a semi-wrinkled shirt and a leer that says “I’m not wearing boxers.”

How did we get ourselves into this position?  We did it to ourselves.  We bought into this media image that we have to look like a pornstar in order to attract a mate.  I’m not saying that we should give up bathing and embrace a new hirsute vegan lifestyle, but we should certainly attempt to cultivate a sustainable sense of personal style that can be maintained.

So toss out those girl magazines that try to dictate everything from your hairstyle to your underwear.  Be the best that you can be but make sure it’s you deciding what that is.  And if you meet a guy who thinks the length of your pubic hair should be a deciding factor in the relationship – go find a better class of men, they are out there.

Direct from my desk – week 4

My darling readers, yes – I’m speaking to both of you, you don’t love me enough to write so once again you’ll have to make due with my opinionated ramblings.

You’ll have no doubt noticed that this past week’s blogs have focused on what you look like.  Now your mother might have told you that it is what is inside that counts and she’s right to a degree – but who is going to want to open a present that looks like it’s gone three rounds (and lost) with the delivery service?

While I won’t tell you what color your hair should be or what type of clothes you should wear, I will tell you that you should put yourself in the hands of professionals in order to create the best you possible – whatever your personal style might be.  Looking good will help build your confidence and confidence is what will draw people to you.