Ladies, if you’re going to engage in booty calls, do it on your terms! Do not allow a man to dictate the who, the when, the where, and the what. So if you want your itch to be scratched, make sure you’re the one in control.
- Do not allow a man to booty call you. If he attempts to, turn him down politely but tell him you’ll call him when you’re interested.
- You decide which man you want (if he doesn’t want you, his loss). Never pick a man that you want a relationship with.
- Be direct in your intentions so there’s no confusion. If you’re shy about asking him to come over for sex, use the “or something” to let him know what’s on your mind.
- Pick the place – don’t use your house unless you’re willing to kick him out afterward. Men, pay particular attention to how you clean your house. If we’re wondering how well you clean your bathroom floor, we’re wondering how well you’re cleaning yourself.
- Remember, this is not a date, it’s sex, don’t get confused. This man is not your beau or your confidante, he’s a tool to be used (sounds harsh but it will help you keep it straight).