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Oops, I did it again

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.  attributed to Albert Einstein

Humans tend to be creatures of habit.  We do the same thing over and over because it is comfortable and familiar to us.  The problem occurs when what we’re doing isn’t working for us we continue to do it.

If you take a look at your past relationships, I’m sure you can find similarities amongst your exes.  What you need to do is to figure out which commonalities are good for you and which are bad for you.  Then you need to correct the pattern(s) that aren’t serving you.


One response to “Oops, I did it again

  1. Claire ⋅

    I find one of the best things I ever did was looking at people I hadn’t considered, and accepting a date to see what happens. We can all be surprised what fits and what doesn’t. Sometimes, it takes trying something different to realize what wasn’t working before. Or maybe finding out what you needed vs. what you thought you wanted.
    Like trying on a new clothing style, a pair of shoes, a hairstyle you wouldn’t of considered – and that moment where you look in the mirror and go “Wow, this I did not expect” and your perspective can shift dramatically.

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