Come closer and I’ll tell you a secret about how men pick the woman they want to be in a relationship with. It’s not about how beautiful she is (that’s the woman he wants to date). It’s the girl not with the slammin’ body (that’s the woman he wants to sleep with). It’s not anything to do with performing tricks in the bedroom, bombarding him with phone calls, or any other external factor.
A man chooses the woman who makes him feel good about himself.
If there is a man you find interesting, find out what he values about himself (and what he believes his weak points are) and give sincere appreciation for the person that he is. One well-placed compliment is worth more than one hundred hollow attempts at flattery. Realize that any attempt to change him will be perceived as a shortcoming on his part. He may change for you but he may also resent you for it. Value who he is and what he brings to the table. If you can’t do that, you might not be with the right guy.