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The universal perfect man

Doesn’t exist.  I’ve written a lot in the past week about types of guys to avoid or guys that you should cut loose at the earliest opportunity.  Don’t be scared off.  It’s good information but it shouldn’t send you off looking for Prince Charming or put you off men entirely.

However…

You will need to be realistic in your search.  Every man is going to have something that you’re not going to be entirely thrilled with.  You need to determine if it’s something you can live with at this point.  Don’t get squeamish about his collection of Star Wars memorabilia or his Luddite mentality toward smart phones.  Maybe he doesn’t tick every box on your checklist up-front but he may check some very important ones if you give him the chance.  Just ask yourself if you can look past the not-so-great points for the  moment while you get to know him better because while the perfect man doesn’t exist, the perfect-man-for-you does.

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