Judging by the feedback in my mailbox my last post might need a bit of clarification regarding what constitutes a lover and what constitutes a booty call. So here goes:
- A lover is a monogamous relationship; a booty call is a non-monogamous arrangement.
- A lover sees you at prearranged intervals; a booty call sees you sporadically.
- A lover takes you out; a booty call takes you to the bedroom.
- A lover texts you; a booty call sexts you.
- A lover doesn’t allow you to fall in love; a booty call encourages you to fall in love.
- A lover will empower you; a booty call will abuse his power.
When you have a lover, you’re completely aware that it is a relationship without a future. He isn’t trying to manipulate you. You’re honest with each other and eventually, the relationship will end peacefully as one of you moves on.
Questions? My mailbox is open: firstname.lastname@example.org