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Surprise! You’re a booty call

Some guys will straight-up tell you that you’re a booty call.  A lot, however, won’t.  The absolute scum (yes, I did just say that) will treat you like a booty call while telling you that you’re in a relationship.

So what’s a girl to do?  Recognize when you’re a booty call:

  1. Nearly every time you’re together you end up having sex.
  2. You rarely go out in public together. (“I just want to relax and spend some quality time with my baby.”  Sound familiar?)
  3. His financial commitment to the relationship is bringing over take-out and a movie.
  4. Nearly every conversations turns into sex talk.
  5. You’ve not met his friends or family.
  6. He waits until the last minute to make plans with you.
  7. There is no forward progression in the relationship.
  8. He has rules about when and where you can contact him.
  9. Holidays, birthdays and vacations are not celebrated together (or in some cases, at all).
  10. You have the feeling that you’re just a booty call.

Again, I do not recommend confronting the guy about it as he’s most likely to deny it.  You won’t believe his denial but you will somehow talk yourself into staying with him until he hurts you enough to get out.  There is no sex so astounding that it’s worth your dignity.  You’re better than that – cut this dirtbag off at the knees.

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2 responses to “Surprise! You’re a booty call

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