Week two and no letters begging desperately for my advice? You people are killing me!
Instead I’ll have to explain why a blog on relationships is harping on about diet and exercise – you’re being judged. Yes, your worse fears are confirmed. That chick behind you in the supermarket – she’s judging the contents of your shopping cart. That guy you walked past on the street – he’s judging the size of your ass. You know it’s true because you’re doing it too.
However, it’s not nearly as insidious as it sounds because when you think about it, judgments are nature’s way of trying to ensure that we pick the best possible options for our genes. You could spend a lifetime fighting them but they are a fact of life. So why not present yourself as the best possible option in the room?